Showing posts with label fun. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fun. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 24, 2019

The Disney Days

One of the most magical things about living where we do in the colorful, lawless swamp of Florida is we are only about 90 minutes, give or take traffic, away from the happiest place on earth, yes, Walt Disney World. When my daughter was turning 2 and was still free admission at Disney, my sister in Oregon insisted they come down and be there for her first visit. Thus started 3 more years of Disney magic, memories and adventures.

In Florida, residents can get a pass and pay on it monthly like any other bill. This gets them into Disney whenever, depending on the pass level, includes parking and they get additional discounts. If you use it enough it definitely pays for itself. This was like a challenge to us; we wanted to get our money's worth!

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We had some of the most amazing times those few years. Oddly enough the Disney trips were always the bright spots when our family was going through our worst emotional and mental times. There was a 6 month period of time when we went every other Sunday and told people we were attending the United Church of Disney. It was a fun thing we always looked forward to.

Some days the trips were for the kiddo. Some days the trips were for mom and dad, depending. Ironically no matter how annoyed we were with each other, no matter how stressful life was, we managed to put all that behind us and just get incredibly lost in the magic of it all. We would watch the other families and the ones that came from far and wide and feel grateful that Disney World was in our metaphorical back yard.

My daughter always loved meeting the characters. My husband and I loved the whole "Tetris" scheme of fitting in the character meets between fast passes and rides and navigating the parks. We had it down to a science at one point where we knew how to pack food and snacks, how to pack water and where and how to buy treats when necessary. One treat was always the Mickey Ice Cream bar and there was a 5 month period where my daughter managed to get one free each time we went. I think she was just that cute.

We were that family that couldn't have a bad time at Disney. We always saw one family at Disney just irate and miserable and it always made us a little more grateful. We always pushed past our exhaustion for the fun. We had more patience at Disney than we did on any other day, and we always made sure each one of us got to do something we wanted that day or overnight.

We found favorite places to stay, ones that were only okay, and made amazing memories and have wonderful stories to tell. We've been without passes almost 2 years and I'm itching to go back. What can I say? I'm a Disnerd.

In my childhood when everything was sucky, my dad took me and my best friend whose life was equally sucky, if not moreso, to Disney World and we still hail that at the best trip ever, until we took all of our girls there 2 years ago and made dreams come seriously true.

I'm really missing it lately and I don't know why. Things are so calm with us. We are on a strict budget and kicking butt. The reason we stopped was because we couldn't afford it at the time, but also my daughter wouldn't try any of the big kid rides and point blank told me she was too impatient to wait to see the characters. We've been on a hiatus and I may cave as a Christmas present to myself. 

When we had passes we had so many family members say they didn't know how we could go all the time. It was pretty easy because we made it a bunch of mini-vacations. During that time we couldn't afford flights places and didn't have paid vacations so little overnights and adventures were all it was about to get is through the year. We made the best of what we could and we always made each other laugh. Something about that theme park atmosphere that took all of our anxieties and put them to good use in being organized, thoughtful and productive.

When we were able to take my best friend and her 3 daughters to Disney in 2017 we literally made it a dream vacation and did it well. They had the best time ever and it will forever be a memorable adventure. I'd never felt so happy being with a bunch of people at Disney. We all had our fun and rode coasters and traded who rode what with whom, and where people sat. We laughed and made fun of things, played games in the line and just had a blast.

I think Disney is just a fun place for us. It's our own little get-away and we have fun being nostalgic and living in the magic. We love the shows, the rides, the characters and the food. I think Disney is our escape back into our childhood but with our kiddo right there so we can all be silly and happy, no matter what else is going on. 

I'm sure other people feel this way too or it wouldn't be such a popular spot but I definitely miss our Disney days. Now we are too busy to Disney it up, or maybe we just need to get it together enough to get it back into the routine. For now I look back at the memories with love and smiles knowing we'll make more at some point. I'll definitely be the first one to crack though. 

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Friday, July 5, 2019

4th Of July Fun With Fantastic Friends

Per my whole continued healing stuff and all of the adulting and working, yesterday we did not have a post. I engaged in the whole "Do things that make you look at your phone less," phenomenon. It was quite a success.

This isn't some bragging post about how we had the best day ever. This is a post about how yesterday was an odd array of what we all needed and realizing that is amazingly eye opening and awesome. 

Wednesday night I was fortunate enough to have a Mom's night out. We were home by 10PM-ish I think, but we had such a good night chatting and being away from kiddos. We have some local friends we have been spending a great deal of time with that we have an obscene amount in common with and it's just been such a calm, wonderful experience to find some people we can be ourselves with.  

As I've come into age and paid closer attention to the many different walks of life, I've noticed that it is few and far between to find social situations that are simple and easy. When I find them, I tend to completely lean into them because they deserve full attention and appreciation in my humble opinion.

Yesterday my husband was finally able to hang with friends of ours for more than an hour and we both went home, put the kid to bed, we were wonderfully exhausted and agreed they are the best people for us to be around currently, and just felt blessed.

We have had amazing holidays this past year filled with fun, but I think the company with this one, and being close to home and knowing we were in a welcome, non-judgmental, completely comfy space, made everything about the day wonderful.

I'm continuing to watch and appreciate how far my family has come. Don't get me wrong, things are far from perfect and we will continue to work and grow, but considering where we started just about a year ago, we have come leaps and bounds.

Yesterday we were all up at a reasonable time and had a slow, lazy morning. I was then able to take a seriously long bike ride and then a shower and nap during thunderstorms. The hubby kicked butt around the house and the kid was just being a kid. We then went to the pool and potluck at our friend's house and then hit downtown for fireworks. It was quite an adventure and I got to spend some time with 3 of my favorite girls, just us. 

I am completely exhausted today, but in the absolute best way I can think of with mostly low key plans this weekend. I'm pushing through the sleepiness with a grateful heart, great coffee and looming workouts. If I don't get around to a weekend post I hope everyone had a safe 4th and enjoys the holiday weekend!

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